💔 "The Truth About Love; That No One Warned You About" Rant Of The Day Blog Article July 7th, 2025 By Jenn D Real

💔 The Truth About Love That No One Warned You About

Rant Of The Day Blog Article July 7th, 2025

Written By Jenn D Real

Intro:

We’ve all seen the movies, heard the stories, and been sold the idea of “perfect love” from every direction. But the truth is, real love—the kind that shakes you to your core—doesn’t look anything like what we’re taught. It’s messy, intense, and often terrifying. And when it hits you, it can leave you wondering if you’re losing your mind. But here’s the hard truth: it’s not madness. It’s love—raw, real, and undeniably life-changing. This blog is for those who’ve felt it and for those who need to understand what’s really happening when it finds them.

Why Love Isn’t What You Think

When love comes into your life, it doesn’t care about your timing, your plan, or your comfort zone. It chooses you, often when you’re least prepared for it. It isn’t a gentle tug on your heart—it’s a wild, unpredictable storm. And when you meet someone who ignites that storm, you might feel like you’ve lost control of your own heart.

Real Love Feels Like Madness

The truth about love that no one talks about is this: it can feel insane. You’ll find yourself thinking, “Why them? Why now?” You’ll question everything you thought you knew about relationships and emotions. Real love doesn’t fit into your tidy, preconceived boxes. It will leave you breathless, vulnerable, and—if you let it—completely unguarded.

What’s Really Happening?

Here’s the thing that no one tells you about love: when it’s real, you don’t get to choose when or how it happens. Love comes in unexpectedly, often when you’re in the middle of trying to get your life together, and it doesn’t wait for you to be “ready.” And the fear you feel? That’s not a sign to run; that’s a sign that you’ve found something real, something worth holding onto. But if you don’t embrace it, it will haunt you.

⚠️ What I Wish You Knew About Real Love

1. You don’t choose love.

If you can not easily say why you love this person it.might just be real love. Love chooses you—and it won’t ask for your permission. It doesn’t follow your timeline or agenda. And that’s terrifying, but also the most freeing thing about it.

2. Fear isn’t a reason to run.

In fact, fear can be a sign that you’ve stumbled upon something so real that it shakes you to your core. It doesn’t always feel safe or predictable, and that’s okay.

3. Real love doesn’t fade.

If you find yourself pushing it away, questioning it, or denying it, just remember this: real love doesn’t leave you. No matter how many times you try to push it away. It stays with you, often quietly, whispering its presence in the background of your life. No matter what happens or has happened between you and your love you still love them fully. Love when it's real won't go away. Even If you choose to deny it, it will still stay. So if you choose to leave it unexpressed it will because an ache. Be there no mistake the ache is permanent as long as the love stays unexpressed.

4. Time is precious.

Don’t let your fears and insecurities stop you from experiencing love because one day, you might look back and regret the time you wasted pushing it away. Time is the one thing you can’t get back. You never know what moment will be your last or even worse your partners last!

🌪️ When Love Chooses You

You don’t get to pick real love—it picks you. And when it does, it doesn’t knock politely or wait until your trauma’s been processed. It arrives loud and irrational, during your worst hair day, right in the middle of your healing arc.

And suddenly, you’re terrified.

Because for the first time, you care more than you meant to.

They walk into a room and your chest forgets how to hold your ribs together.

No one warns you about this kind of love.

The kind where:

You can’t stop thinking about them.

You want to run just to make the intensity stop.

You feel insane for how deeply it hits—without reason, without logic, without a checklist of compatibility. You don't love them for their looks or what they can do for you. You don't even love them for their personality. You just love them fully and completely without reason.

🧠 You’re Not Broken—You’re Just in Real Love

Society tells us love should be stable, quiet, mutual, easy.

But real love is unstable.

It’s soul-shaking.

It makes you rethink your entire sense of self.

And if you're scared when it hits?

That doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

It means it’s real.

Fear is part of the process. You’re not malfunctioning—you’re waking up.

And truth be told some things are better when they are not easy. Having a easy partner may result in hardships. For instance if someone is easy for you odds are they are easy for all your friends too.

⚠️ What They Don’t Tell You (But I Will)

1. Love doesn’t conform.

It doesn’t ask for permission or wait for you to be emotionally available. It shows up. Period.

2. It may feel like madness.

You’ll feel obsessed, irrational, out of control. That’s not toxicity—it’s intensity. There’s a difference.

3. You will want to run.

That’s your survival instinct trying to protect you from vulnerability. Don’t listen to it. Stay.

4. Time is precious.

The moments you waste second-guessing are moments you’ll never get back. Regret is a heavier weight than loss.

5. True love doesn’t fade.

It echoes, even in silence. If it’s real, it’ll mark you. Forever.

🗝️ What You Can Do With It

When love chooses you, you can’t always choose how it unfolds. But you can choose whether or not you show up for it.

So ask yourself:

Will I let fear speak louder than connection?

Will I protect my comfort or risk everything for something real?

Will I shut the door because

I don’t understand it—or walk through it because it makes me feel alive?

💡 My Advice? Choose It Anyway.

If love finds you, don’t run. Embrace it. It’s not going to be easy.It’s going to challenge you, break you, and rebuild you. But in the end, you’ll know you’ve lived fully.

🌪️ Embrace the Storm

Real love isn’t neat. It doesn’t always feel good. But the highs? They’ll make the lows worth it. When love chooses you, you have two options: run, or lean in and go with it.

You’ll never know what could’ve been if you don’t let yourself experience the intensity of it. Trust me—love doesn’t wait.

Final Thought:

Love will come into your life, uninvited and unrestrained

But if you’re brave enough to stay in it, to lean into it with all your heart—you’ll be free.

I choose to be real with love every day, and I want you to choose it too. For what makes life worth living without love?

The full truth?
Real love doesn’t arrive softly. It kicks the door down.
It wrecks your plans, your logic, your boundaries.
It doesn’t make sense, and it doesn’t care that it doesn’t.

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If you’ve felt that storm, that rush of wild, uncontrollable love, share your story in the comments below. Let’s talk about the real, messy, beautiful truth of what it’s like to experience love in all its rawness.

The Truth About Love, 
As Understood by Jenn D Real

The true definition of insanity?
It's love.
True love—the kind you don't choose; it chooses you.
And there's nothing you can do to stop it.

It's the kind of love where you don’t know why you love them.
You just do.
Strongly. Deeply.

Every little piece of them is beautiful to you.
Even the flaws. Especially the flaws.
You see them, but they don't change how you feel.

Nothing changes how you feel.
You can't even make yourself stop loving them—
Not even after they've given you a thousand reasons to.
It’s brutal.
It’s gut-wrenching pain.
It’s home.
And sheer bliss when you get a kiss. 😘
Don’t try to understand it.
It is what it is.
When you experience it, you’ll know—
With every part of your soul—
That person is mine,
And it will always be so.

True love doesn’t fade.
It doesn’t ask for forgiveness for being bold.
It doesn’t shrink to fit your comfort.
If you try to cage it,
It will tear you apart from the inside
Just to get out
And find its other half.

Love—when it’s real—gives zero shits about how society feels.
It won’t conform to your ideals.
Trying to stop it is like trying to wrangle the storm.

There is no place in real love for fear and insecurity.
Leave them behind.
Because every time you let fear hold you back,
You lose time you’ll never get back.
And what if she dies in a wreck on her way to work tomorrow?
Could you live with that?
Could you bear never knowing what you could have had?
Never holding her in your arms?

I won’t apologize for choosing my heart.
I’ve died too many times to not understand this truth:
Time and love are two of the most valuable things in existence.
Time is limited.
Love doesn’t obey.
It’s not your servant.
You are love’s slave.

So:
Choose to be relentless; 

in pursuit of your dreams.
Choose to love unreasonably.
Choose what brings happiness.
And never forget—
The weight of longing is heavier than the weight of loss.

Love shouldn’t be sane.
It should consume, unravel, and set you free.
To love someone ceaselessly
Is beautiful
And agonizing
And real.
And I choose to be Real—
Every single day.

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